Ok...ok...this is not "the one", but I do like the colors...as Mei suggested the lighter color is easier on the eyes!
I started playing around and lost track of time, so I will settle for this one for the time being. It came from Scrap-E-Blog, the blog backgrounds are by Cori and she has some great backgrounds...but still not as simple as I think I would like.
Will keep looking...but for now I have to go or I'll be late!!!